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by Vidya Sury November 29, 2012 18 comments
My head was brimming over with ideas, yet I couldn’t actually shape them and round them up into a post because I am nursing a head cold right now. So I did the next best thing. I called The Force. I asked my son – if he had to write a parenting post, what would be the first thing that came to mind? And pat came the answer, as if he was waiting for me to ask him.

“How about when parents need to convey something… they need not be harsh. If they say it “lovingly” things can get done so much more easily.”

I asked, “Can you elaborate?”

He said, “Yes. Often, older people assume that they must raise their voices to get things done or give advice. We are happier to listen when it comes as normal conversation.   If reasonable there’s no reason why we would even rebel. Sometimes we can’t even understand why you get angry!”

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Joy November 29, 2012 at 4:20 pm

You know the title drew me right in 🙂

May the symptoms of your head cold be relieved..

And, I love the wisdom that our children share!

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Vidya Sury December 13, 2012 at 6:11 pm

Yes, Joy! Thank you!
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Kimberly November 29, 2012 at 5:11 pm

I think that is completely true. We were always yelled at and not talked to. When we were talked respectively we did more and listened.
I hope you feel better soon xo

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Vidya Sury December 13, 2012 at 6:12 pm

Thank you Kim. I cringe when someone yells at me! 😀
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Betsy/Zen Mama November 29, 2012 at 5:36 pm

Heading over to read!

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Vidya Sury December 13, 2012 at 6:12 pm

Thank you, Betsy!
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Terri Sonoda November 29, 2012 at 6:57 pm

Checked it out. Awesome post Vidya!

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Vidya Sury December 13, 2012 at 6:13 pm

Thanks so much, Terri!
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goingbeyondthepages November 29, 2012 at 3:17 pm

Such an important point your son has raised. Hopping over to Parentous to read the post 🙂

– Jas

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Vidya Sury December 13, 2012 at 6:10 pm

Thank you!
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My Inner Chick November 29, 2012 at 9:28 pm

I love that kid ! ! Xx

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Vidya Sury December 13, 2012 at 6:14 pm

Makes two of us, Kim! Hugs!
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carolynhughesthehurthealer November 29, 2012 at 4:14 pm

“Out of the mouths of babes!” What a wise son you have raised Vidya 🙂

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Vidya Sury December 13, 2012 at 6:15 pm

Yes, Carolyn. Makes me more conscious about what I project. Because I am rewarded in such a wonderful way!
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Jodi @ Heal Now November 29, 2012 at 4:38 pm

A soul beyond his years, he is. Gorgeous!

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Vidya Sury December 13, 2012 at 6:12 pm

Thank you, Jodi! I pray he stays that way!
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Barbara November 29, 2012 at 7:25 pm

Wise words by Vidur and you listen to him well, Vidya!

Sending you bear hugs and good vibes, get well soon! Thinking of you!

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Vidya Sury December 13, 2012 at 6:14 pm

Thank you, dear Barbara! bear hugs back at you!
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