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Dear World, I am Your Blind Date #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

by Vidya Sury October 17, 2018 13 comments
Dear World, I am Your Blind Date #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

It was a dark and stormy night.

Okay not night, but late evening.

There was a massive storm raging. It uprooted trees, took down buildings and caused havoc.

Traffic was severely disrupted. Neighbors worried about their folks out there, praying for their safe return home.

Finally, around 6 pm, it subsided and settled down to rain.

At our place, all of us were present. And busy trying to decide whether pakora or bajji would be better with ginger chai.

A little while later, replete and a bit bored, we sat around.

Suddenly my Mom jumped up saying, “hey Vidya, let’s go out!”

I looked at her wondering if she’d lost her mind. Also I was reading a very interesting thriller.

But I knew better than to say no to her, and resigned myself to adventure, because her second name is OpenMinded and she is my travel inspiration.

We changed, and stepped out into the storm. Being with my Mom is an exhilarating experience, what with her rather sharp wit packaged in kindness. We hopped into the first bus that arrived, marveling that it had even turned up. We had a vague destination in mind, but this bus wasn’t on that route.

What happened next was amazing. Because of the traffic diversions, the bus took the route we wanted to go on, and dropped us exactly outside the cinema we were headed to. When we emerged from the theater three hours later, the weather was quite clear and we returned home, feeling rather happy. What an enriching experience!

I learned the joy of travel from being with my Mom. Always willing to take off on impromptu trips whenever we could afford it – be it inside the city or the suburbs. I remember how we once walked ten kilometers on the Medak road in Hyderabad because we wanted to see where it went. That we landed up in some fields where we picked “toor dal” and hopped on a cart back home is another story. We cooked that dal and thought it was the best we tasted.

Take only memories, leave only footprints

In between moving cities and colleges I had my share of unreserved bus and train journeys and sometimes spent time standing by the train door, wind blowing my hair, chatting with a like minded soul late into the night.

All these outings probably prompted me to choose a career that included intensive travel. I still remember these “strangers” and our conversations vividly.

I find travel magical mainly because of the diverse people I meet, the kindnesses I experience, and of course, with each trip, I find a little more of myself.

Truly, travel broadens the mind!

Like most people, I too have a travel wish list whose theme is … everywhere. Of course, it goes without saying I want to visit all my friends who are settled in various countries. I am fortunate to have a flexible work schedule and can take off on a whim.

So dear world, it’s time to go on that blind date.

I love what I’ve seen so far.

I live for new experiences, discovering unknown destinations.

Because impromptu unplanned trips bring the best and most cherished memories.

Let’s feel the thrill of that unplanned trip, exploring the world.

I can’t help reminiscing about some of my happiest trips, an exercise in self exploration…

  • Dharamsala to meet the Dalai Lama. Everyone who knew laughed at my confidence and my naivete at emailing him for a meeting. Yet, within the week there I was, being hugged by The Man himself.
  • Hundru falls in Ranchi on a whim – ended up spending the most glorious morning, treated to green tea with ginger and lemon by a total stranger who told me stories about his life as we watched the waterfalls.
  • Came home Friday night after work and at decided to take off on the next bus to Kanchipuram by myself simply because I had heard of a strange and unbelievable experience my colleague had during her visit. Where an auto driver took me under his wing, settled me into a nice hotel and took me sightseeing and then finally dropped me off at my destination from where i could take my bus out. Still remember the delicious food! And the movie I watched that night.
  • Took off to Karwar to visit the Power Plant–an experience I’ll never forget. The hospitality, the food sitting on a bench under an awning, just off the deep ravine watching the drizzle of the waterfall, the affectionate people, the crazy jeep ride. Surreal!
  • That moment when our bus practically parked at the edge of the deep ravine across from Cherrapunji Falls – for a minute I was pretty sure we’d become part of the landscape, but the driver stopped just a few inches short, safely.
  • That lovely family of cooks who invited us in and fed us a tasty and hot meal after our visit to the Jwalaji temple in Himachal.

I could go on and on, but dear World, let’s talk about our next trip.

Travelers, it is late. Life’s sun is going to set. During these brief days that you have strength, be quick and spare no effort of your wings. #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

I vote for a backpacking journey rather than spending hours over that itinerary. Let’s take off with minimal packing with only our essentials and live like nomads.

Let’s go where our fancy takes us.

Let’s pretend we have a pair of wings.

Let’s flip a coin.

Heads I win, Tails you lose.

Let’s fly! Feel the breeze caress us as we glide across the sky, looking around, ahead and down, to stop at wherever takes our fancy.

Could be that artisan by the roadside weaving baskets, narrating stories to his granddaughter, or a promising road sign. Let’s see that basket take shape, listen to some stories . . . and follow that road sign to a farm where that puzzled family greets us and then invites us to lunch.

The basket weaver spinning stories for his granddaughter #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

We’ll set off again, as they watch, amazed, at our wings.

Don’t be surprised if I suggest that we head towards Munnar, because someone shared photos of the Kurinji flower that blooms only once in twelve years. Let’s go and explore the purple and blue mountains, breathe the air, drink tea by the roadside and revel in nature.

Chikmagaluru Neelakurinji #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

Pic credit: Kerala Tourism

Next stop, Gujarat, to see the Modhera Sun Temple. Then the Gir National Park to meet the queen of the jungle do the catwalk. Eat an authentic Gujarati thali at that restaurant and laze the afternoon away on the stone bench outside the Adalaj Stepwell.

Modhera Sun Temple #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

Rajasthan could be next, as we explore the sands of time, soaking in the rich culture that is India. Maybe sing a song or two under the moonlight, after all we are on a date, right?

Rajasthan desert #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

I would then love to wander northward, heading towards heaven on earth, because truly, my heart is currently in that State. We could go to Kangra and spend the day at  the Masrur rock-cut stone temple, a marvelous piece of architecture.

Masrur temple #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

By Akashdeep83Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, Link

As we enjoy this ancient site, I tell you I want to see the Buddhas of Bamiyan and of course you agree. We take off with renewed energy and hover over the mammoth statues, admiring them.

Buddhas of Bamiyan #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

Since we’re flying, should we go to China next or elsewhere? I vote China – to see the Great Wall. And fair warning, I have a fetish for huge statues, so I’ll stop to stare each time we come across one.

Great wall of China #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

Now may we traverse across India again to get a glimpse of the Taj Mahal and renew our blind date vows?

Taj Mahal #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

Now surprise me as I close my eyes and put my trust in you, holding your hand. Let’s see if you can read my mind!

The gentle pressure of your hand urges me to open my eyes and lo! You’ve brought me to a place I’ve only dreamed of visiting! Machu Picchu! Let’s spend some time in Peru. Let’s play with the children on the streets!

Machu Picchu #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

Onward to soar over Rio, Brazil and hug the statue of Christ, the Redeemer!

Rio #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

And then, Angkor Vat in Cambodia to explore this great monument. I’d like to spend the night there, enjoying the silence, broken only by nature’s sounds, listening, letting the serene surroundings soothe us.

Angkor Vat #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

How about Egypt and the pyramids of Giza, next? I have always wanted to look the Sphinx in the eye and whisper in her ear. I’ve got a secret for her!

Sphinx #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

It is time now to head towards Europe and roam around Rome, Spain and the French countryside. So romantic. Can we play hide and seek in the Coliseum?

Coliseum Rome #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

Let’s bask in Santorini, Greece.

And when we’ve had our fill of olives and gorgeous landscapes, let’s fly past Stonehenge

Stonehenge #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

I have always wanted to watch the whirling dervishes, so we must head to Istanbul, now. Let’s not miss the incredible Cappadocia caves and Goreme, where I hear you can spend the night in a cave.

Let’s make sure we visit The Galata Mevlevi Museum on a Sunday in time to see the whirling dervish show. Or even catch the show at the Hodjapasha Dance Theater – transformed from a 15th century Turkish bath. I’ve heard that the sema ceremony is a spiritual journey of dervishes whirling for divine love.

How appropriate for our date!

Whirling Dervishes #SayYesToTheWorld #TheBlindList

And later, we can spend time in the stars, relaxing on the clouds, reading Rumi’s poetry and sipping elixir from one glass with two straws.

Beyond the rightness or wrongness of things there is a field, I’ll meet you there.

I am sure I’ll drift off into a deep sleep….

….to wake up in my own bed.

But believe me, I am ready whenever you call!

No itinerary, except the secret agenda in my head.

Just following our hearts.

I am in love with you, dear world, and your incredible secrets.

Sure I have my bucket list but the idea of a #theblindlist is infinitely more exciting.

Because when I #SayYesToTheWorld, I am essentially saying Yes to Myself.

So much to see, so much to explore and experience in this lifetime!


What’s your travel inspiration?

Do you travel to explore?

Would you #SayYesToTheWorld?

Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world

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Rachna October 18, 2018 at 7:52 am

I loved reading about your mum and how she loved in the moment. That list that you have there is something. I am sure that you will make time to explore to your heart’s content. Travel is so much more than just going from place to place.

Shalzmojo October 18, 2018 at 8:31 am

Wow!!! What a wordlwind affair with the world Vidya; you made me wanna pack my stuff and message you for a trip together!

You have woven reality and beauty of travel in this post- take memories and leave only footprints. You my friend are a pro at it and I could only sigh over your unique travel experiences – I need to invite you over for coffee and then hear you talk about all of them!! So please take this as an invitation and come visit me 🙂

Love love love your post – its the best I have read so far!!!

Rajlakshmi October 18, 2018 at 10:39 am

You had such lovely experiences. And you actually emailed Dalai Lama for a meet! Now that’s really cool. I wish I could travel to all these amazing places and experience the culture and food. This world is so incredibly beautiful.
When are you coming down under? 😀
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Vidya Sury October 18, 2018 at 4:58 pm

Thank you, Raj! Sometimes reaching out to the top person works far easier than going through protocol!
Down under is definitely on my bucket list. We might meet sooner than you think! Hugs! Thank yu for your kind comment!

Mayuri Nidigallu October 18, 2018 at 4:29 pm

Reading about your Mom is always my most favorite thing to read on your blog.

Your post is so wonderful , Vidya! As are the fun journeys you’ve experienced!

This is, yet again, one of my favourite posts so far. Also, this post is most definitely the contest winner!

Vidya Sury October 18, 2018 at 4:59 pm

Thank you for always being kind to me, Mayuri. I cherish your comment–you make me feel as though my mission has been accomplished, just by writing this post! Hugs!
I had rambled on about many more trips but had to knock them off because the post seemed never-ending…even to me!
Love you!

Vinay kumar October 18, 2018 at 5:23 pm


Obsessivemom October 18, 2018 at 6:37 pm

How delightful to simply take off on an adventure, even if it lands you at a theatre or in an open field. What lovely adventures you’ve had Vidya. It just reinforces the thought that good things happen to good people. Loved your travel wish list. Stonehenge and the sphinx and the Pyramids.. there’s so much to see around the world.
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Kala Ravi October 18, 2018 at 7:46 pm

What is life without a little thrill and adventure! Your mom had this infectious energy about her and I guess you share that too! I loved the lovely trail you’ve shared, each a gem waiting to be discovered. Each person perceives a place differently. I remember reading your amazing trip meeting the Dalai Lama very well! Loved reading about your wonderful escapedes!
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Anindya Rakshit October 18, 2018 at 10:05 pm

Wow, loved your take on the #TheBlindList…..it was a lovely read together with those lovely clicks of so many places from the world around. This writing prompt has come up with some real great posts in these last few days, and your post is another great one…

Magical Mystical Mimi October 21, 2018 at 5:25 am

Wow… The Dalai Lama <3 That would be incredible and I would carry his hug with me forever. 🙂 – And the Taj Mahal.. I want to go there so bad. I've heard the love story of the Taj Mahal my whole life growing up – if that story isn't true I don't wanna' know! – I just want to go and sit in the beauty that is.. – Great post, Vidya. Thank you for adding places to my travel list, some I'd never even heard of!

Darla M Sands October 24, 2018 at 7:05 pm

Great stories! I, too, love reading about your mother and wish I were half so adventurous. My spouse worries when I go out of town for a rock concert! So big adventures aren’t for us. Namaste, my dear.

Carl April 15, 2019 at 1:14 pm

No doubt, travel broadens the mind!


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