I just started a new project. A personal one. It is called the Happiness Jar.
This is how it looks:
What you are looking at is a Jar with a smiley stuck on it.
We also call it the gratitude jar, because we drop notes in it about what we are grateful for, as well as what made us happy.
Appreciation is an important part of life, more so for children, so that they donβt grow up with a sense of entitlement. Children who do grow up thinking they are privileged often end up with not so perfect relationships and are not liked by everyone. And thatβs so sad.
When we appreciate what we have and focus on it, rather than whine about what we donβt have, life is much better. We learn the value of things. So why not teach children this? Best to start when they are very young. And the happiness jar or gratitude jar is the best and most fun way to do it.
Hereβs what we will be doing with our happiness jar: Each time something makes us happy, weβll write it down in a slip of paper and put it in this jar. This means we will consciously appreciate every little thing. Weβll watch the jar fill up. At some point, it may not even be necessary to open the jar and read each slip, though weβll do that too. Just seeing it fill up will be motivating, inspiring.
If we have a problem or if weβre upset about something, weβll discuss it, disperse the sadness, find solutions and take action to feel better.
What you need to make your Happiness Jar
- A jar, of course. Any old container will do. Use a large one because children are enthusiastic about filling it up. Try and get a clear jar so you can see the notes inside it. If you donβt have a jar, even a cereal box is good enough. Just dress it up with pretty pictures and put a giant label on it, that says βHappiness Jarβ
- Keep small notes readyβyou can cut large sheets of paper into small notes and keep them ready along with a pencil. For the paper, even one-sided ones will do. Be creative!
- Place the Happiness jar where you can see it several times a day. It will serve as a pleasant reminder to be happy and grateful.
Just the sight of it filling up will bring you joy, I promise, along with a smile on your face!
Grateful children grow up to be wonderful human beings.
Teach your child the value of gratitude, today!
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The other day I wondered out loud to my husband, “I wonder who is reading my posts and if it’s helpful?” (He always calls the positive comments I get “my paycheck”.) He answered back, you’ll get your paycheck soon, don’t worry!”
Well, reading your post was my paycheck today. Thank you so much! I was amazed, humbled and inspired by you to continue my journey of writing. I hope someday to meet, but in the meantime, I’m so glad you’re blogging friends!!
“““It’s the second best thing you can do with your lips? What’s the first, Vidya?!
Love your smile project. Love you, too. X
Thank you so much Betsy. I feel great when I can convert my inspiration into action and make things better. Am so excited about this activity, I’ve been telling people about it and a few kids I know now have what they call the “Zen Mama Jar”
How is that? I am thrilled about connecting, too. π
Dear Kim, π Take a wild guess about the first thing…. MMuah!Hugs to you!
That is such a sweet idea! What a wonderful way to be conscious of everything life blesses us with every day π
π Thanks for stopping by Dionna. Am happy to say my son’s busy putting something into that jar every day.
You made me smile.
π Unknown Mami, you’re a favorite with me.
–You. ROck. ALl. The. Way. To. America.
Xxx Kiss. Love.
Hugs, Kim, for coming back and visiting this link. I am in love with this project. And I am in love with you. Smooch!
This is a really wonderful idea. My Dad was sitting with me when I got your reply in my inbox from your other blog post. And even he went “WOW”! We’re going to make our own Happiness Jar! π
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That’s wonderful, Chicky. And I’ll tell you a secret – when you start jotting down the little things, you’ll never run out of topics to write about. π
Please do thank your Dad for me.
Hugs, Vidya
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Wonderful idea! But at my place, I’ll be the only one putting in notes and reading through them. π
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Hi! Rekha! π Then, would you try this, just once? Place the jar/container where everyone at home can see it. Add your notes. You’ll generate curiosity. And seeing the jar fill up, the others will want to participate. Slowly. But steadily. π I’ve seen that happen! Be prepared for a little teasing, initially, though. If you are keen on others participating, write a few notes praising those people. When they check your notes… π You know what to do. I really appreciate your coming by!
I’ll surely try that out…:-)
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What a brilliant idea, Vidya! I have been reading a lot of positive psychology research and I think this is right up there with some of the very effective and doable ideas that have been suggested as a means for more positive living. Loved it to the core. Will be making one for myself π
Thanks a lot for sharing
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What an excellent idea! I’ve come to your blog via Vishnu’s (virtues) and i’ve really enjoyed reading your posts. I know you posted this a couple of years now – is it still an on-going project?
I’m going to start a gratitude project too, but with a slight twist, as I’ve got lots of wall and lots of spare post-its π
Hope you’re having an amazing day!
Hi! Li-ling! and welcome! Yes, I still maintain the Happiness Jar π Would love to see your gratitude project – I do mine in a journal, though. π Come to think of it, I have loads of blank stickers too. π Have a lovely weekend!
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