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A 3 step mini mindfulness meditation to keep you calm

by Vidya Sury June 24, 2020 8 comments
A 3 step mini mindfulness exercise

If stress is a part of your life, this wonderful 3 step mini mindfulness meditation will help you come back into the present moment and keep you calm. Feel free to practice this several times a day, anywhere you please, and at any time. And it only takes a few minutes to feel refreshed.

Here is what the steps involve:

  1. Step one helps you step out of automatic pilot so you can become aware of what you are doing right now, where you are, and what you are thinking. It brings you into the present moment.
  2. Step two makes you aware of your breathing for about a minute or half a dozen breaths.
  3. Step three expands your awareness to your whole body and then to your environment if you wish.

A 3 step mini mindfulness meditation exercise

How to practice the 3 step mini mindfulness meditation

Step 1

Begin the 3 step mini mindfulness meditation by sitting comfortably. You want to be relaxed, with your back erect—but not stiff—letting your body express a sense of being present and awake. This step leads you into the present moment.

Now, close your eyes. Become aware of what is going on with you right now. What thoughts are going around in your mind? Just note these thoughts as mental events. As you note them, what are your feelings at this moment? Specifically, turn towards any sense of discomfort or unpleasant feelings.

Rather than push them away or shut them out, just acknowledge them. Maybe you can say: Ah, there you are, that’s how it is right now.

Do the same with the sensations in your body. Are there sensations of tension, of holding, or whatever? Be aware of them, acknowledge them. And say, Ah, there you are, that’s how it is right now.

Now, you have a sense of what is going on at this moment. You have stepped out of automatic pilot by becoming aware of what’s going on in your mind and body and acknowledging it.

Step 2

The second step in this 3 step mini mindfulness meditation is to collect your awareness by focusing on a single object—the movements of the breath.

So, gather yourself, focusing your attention on the movement of your breath. Begin with the abdomen or other breath focus points such as the nostrils or roof of the mouth, the rise and fall of the breath.

Spend a minute or so to focus on the movement of your abdominal wall, moment by moment, breath by breath, as best as you can. Be aware of when the breath is moving in and when the breath is moving out.

Just bind your awareness to the pattern of movement down there, gathering yourself, using your breath as an anchor to really be present in this moment.

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Step 3

In the third step of the 3 step mini mindfulness meditation, having gathered yourself to some extent, allow your awareness to expand.

In addition to being aware of your breath, include a sense of the body as a whole to get a more spacious awareness. Get a sense of the body as a whole, including any tightness or sensations related to holding in your shoulders, neck, back or face. Follow your breath as if your whole body is breathing. Hold it all in this slightly softer, more spacious awareness.

When you are ready, gently allow your eyes to open and return to your daily routine, refreshed, and mindfully.

If you practiced this 3 step mini mindfulness meditation while reading this post, I would love to know how you feel. Tell me in the comments!

And I hope the image in this post brought a smile to your face.

Wednesday Wisdom is a series with short bursts of easy-to-consume wisdom in the form of inspiring stories, verse, quotes, anecdotes, reflections, easy meditation, thought-provoking questions and humor. Oh yeah, some days are not so short.

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Saathvik PN June 24, 2020 at 11:17 pm

Image in the blog is so cute. ^_^
I often wonder how you make them.
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Leana Lourens June 30, 2020 at 12:27 pm

Hi Vidya. I always love reading these posts from you. It always helps especially for times when one feels stressed and it happens unfortunately. I’m keeping these great tips in mind for when I’m feeling off 😊

Sandy N Vyjay June 30, 2020 at 5:40 pm

This is a very simple and easy way for quick meditation and mindfulness. The best part is this can be practised wherever you are. Practising this regularly opens the doors to different levels of meditative experiences. But this is a nice way to begin the whole process of meditation.

Lynne July 1, 2020 at 12:48 pm

This sounds fantastic and something that will most definitely help me to bring myself back to the present moment. I’ve recently experienced anxiety attacks, mostly during level 5 and 4 of our lockdown, and I think this meditation is going to be a fantastic tool to overcome that. I have thankfully not really had much of a problem with anxiety attacks during lockdown level 3 but I am finding being at home with my kids and trying to work quite stressful.

radhaaariv July 8, 2020 at 11:21 am

Meditation helps decrease metabolism, lowers blood pressure, and improves heart rate, breathing, and brain waves,” Benson says. Tension and tightness seep from muscles as the body receives a quiet message to relax. Thank you for sharing 3 step mini mindfulness meditation. It really worked for me to be calm.

Carla Corelli April 29, 2022 at 11:48 am

This is a very doable short mindfulness session. I will try to incorporate it in my morning routine 🙂 Thank you
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Vidya Sury April 29, 2022 at 12:09 pm

Thank you Carla! I love short meditations!

Abhishek Sapkota May 26, 2022 at 4:26 pm

I am practicing Samatha meditation for a long period of time. I can relate the steps that are explained here with what I did and what I am doing right now. The article is so relevant. Many Thanks, 🙂
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