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The Dinner Date #WednesdayWisdom

The Dinner Date #WednesdayWisdom #mindfulness #relationships

It was their twenty-first wedding anniversary. His wife suggested that he take another woman out for dinner and a movie.  As his expression turned to shocked surprise, she continued, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.”

The other woman she wanted him to visit was his mother, who lived alone after his dad had passed away nineteen years ago. Because of his work and his three children it was possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night he called to invite her for dinner and a movie.

Intrigued, “What’s wrong, is everything okay?” she asked, assuming that any late night call or unexpected invitation could only mean one thing: bad news.

“I just thought it would be pleasant to spend some time together,” he responded. “Just the two of us.”

After a moment’s thought, she said, “I would love that.”

That Friday after work, he felt a bit nervous on his way to pick her up. After he arrived at her house, he saw her waiting at the door with her coat on, ready to leave. He noticed that she seemed a little nervous too.

She had curled her hair. She wore the dress she had worn for her last wedding anniversary. When she smiled at him, she looked like an angel.

She said, “I told my friends I was going out with my son and they were impressed!”

They headed to a cozy restaurant. With his mother on his arm, they entered the restaurant and found their table. As they seated themselves, they were presented with the menu. He had to read it, as her eyes could only handle the large print. As he looked up, he saw his Mom staring at him, with a nostalgic smile.

“Remember how I used to read the menu when you were small?” she said.

“Now it is my turn. Relax and enjoy yourself, Mom!” he answered, smiling back at her.

They had a pleasant dinner, sprinkled with conversation, catching up with each other. They realized that they were so engrossed that they had missed the movie.

As he dropped her back home, she said, “Next time we go out, it shall be my treat!” and he agreed.

He drove back home. His wife asked him how the dinner date had gone and he said, “Very nice. Nicer than I could have imagined.”

A few days passed.

His mother died of a massive heart attack. This was so sudden that he didn’t have the chance to do anything for her.

Days later, as he looked through his mail, he found an envelope. In it, was a copy of a receipt from the restaurant he had visited with his mother. There was a note attached to it. It said, “I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure if I could be there, but I paid for two. One for you, one for your wife. You have no idea what that night meant to me. I love you, son.”

His eyes filled up. He was glad he had spent time with his mom.

I choked up when I read this.

In life, it is so important to say your I love yous to your loved ones.

So important to spend time with loved ones.

Don’t put it off. There’s no tomorrow. The time is now.

If you postpone it, thinking that you’ll do it someday—it may never happen.

And living with regrets is the most painful thing, ever.

Call that friend you are fond of and make a coffee date.

Email that friend you miss, and would like to get in touch with.

Life will always be busy if you let it.

“I wish I had…” is one of the saddest things to say, because it is usually laced with guilt. That you could have, but didn’t.

Family, at least for me, is everything.

Relationships are a blessing.

Nurture them, cherish them.

The best things in life are the people you love, the places you’ve seen, and the memories you’ve made along the way #wednesdaywisdom #mindfulness #inspiringquotes

#WednesdayWisdom is a series with short bursts of easy-to-consume wisdom in the form of stories, quotes, anecdotes, and humor.

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15 Comments

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    Darla M Sands
    March 7, 2018 at 8:28 pm

    Wow! What an inspiring story. Beautiful, like you, my dear. Namaste.

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    G Angela
    March 8, 2018 at 5:21 pm

    I have read this story before, vidya – its very beautiful and inspiring- thanks for reminding me once again on what matters most in life.

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    upasna
    March 8, 2018 at 5:49 pm

    Lovely! Thanks for sharing this Vidya ji.

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    KP
    March 8, 2018 at 7:54 pm

    It was a touching story. There are always many things like this we do not think about or we put off to another day. In a few rare cases, especially with some we are close to, such things sadly never materialises leaving us in regret for ever.
    Never put off a promise, a visit, a celebration or even a casual talk over phone specially with seniors in age is the message forcefully brought out in your lovely post.Thank you.

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    Pratikshya Mishra
    March 8, 2018 at 8:10 pm

    This story has left me teary eyed. Yes, so often we take life for granted, postponing that dinner date, get together , that plan to meet up… It’s important to tell the person that you miss him/her the very moment you do……

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    Vinay Kumar Satyanarayan
    March 9, 2018 at 10:37 am

    What if the friend didn’t respond or reciprocate…..

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    Soumya
    March 9, 2018 at 11:38 am

    Look what you made me do. I have mascara running down my cheeks now.

    This was so, so beautiful.

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    Mayuri Nidigallu
    March 9, 2018 at 9:07 pm

    Such a beautiful reminder of the harsh truth no one amongst us like to acknowledge. The fact is, we THINK we have time and the truth is otherwise.

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    Zainab
    March 10, 2018 at 12:35 am

    Oh what a beautiful tale. Simply love the way his mom paid in advance.

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    Shalini
    March 10, 2018 at 9:32 am

    What a beautiful tale, Mam. Left me teary eyed.We often take things for granted but sometimes all you need is to give a little of your time and love.

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    SHALINI BAISIWALA
    March 10, 2018 at 12:10 pm

    Your posts are so so inspirational in their message but the tone is so gentle that its a pleasure to read them; Thank you for writing such warm and happy accounts Vidya – these serve as a reminder of goodness to be tapped into daily when I get caught up with the humdrum routine! Your posts make me take a step back and do stuff!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for such lovely writing! 🙂

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    themoonstone
    March 16, 2018 at 10:39 pm

    That’s a touching story Vidya.Thanks for sharing..

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